Life does not last forever. However, we do not know when we will have to say goodbye to this world. Perhaps the person sitting next to you right now may not be in this world tomorrow... Let's talk about the things that I regret the most. While I was writing this blog, my grandfather passed away in Japan. It was a sudden incident that made it feel like my brain was shutting down. The first thing that I came to my mind after I heard about my grandfather was that I could not say "Thank you" or "Sorry" to my grandfather anymore. After you finish reading my blog, I want you to express your love to the important people in your life as soon as possible because you do not know when you might lose them. No one has any knowledge of the future. I was proud of my grandpa who was a really smart and charismatic person. When I was in elementary school I often brought mathematics textbooks to my grandpa's house and we would solve problems together. Thanks to that, my elementary school grades are always high, and my grandpa said that he was really proud of me. However, I eventually stopped bringing math textbooks or any school books to him and we stopped studying together. This was because I wanted to improve myself without leaning on his support. I also wanted him to be even prouder of me than before. Over time, I became a junior high school student, and I had to learn all new things in an unknown place called Japan. He tried to do as much to support me and my education as he could. I refused his help because I thought that he would think more of me if I overcame this situation by myself. But, no matter how many times I refused, he kept contacting me to offer his assistance. That kindness was an obstacle to me... I began to ignore him and maintained only the minimum necessary contact. Even when I decided to go to Canada as a high school student, he said "Please contact me at anytime. I am always by your side." To be honest, I wanted to apologize to him at that time, but I did not do that. It was because I thought that I could say it anytime. However, it was foolish of me to think that since now it is impossible.
My lesson for you: ・You should say "Thank you" or "Sorry" every day to your important people. ・If you fall into the same situation as me, then talk to someone as much as you can and convey your feelings (cry a lot). ・Read like these pages and feel better ↓ https://pairedlife.com/problems/How-to-Say-Sorry-Wife-Husband-Girlfriend-Boyfriend-Spouse , ・After losing someone who is important to you, listen to music that you can sympathize with. Here are my recommendations. Both songs have English subtitles, don't worry ;) → https://youtu.be/-vTDl63EERM , https://youtu.be/Y6EynWGGNDI Kai I
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