I always think there is no one perfect in the world, if they do that is still not me. So the result is to try to be a better person, and that is enough. There are always some powerful people around you, they insist on running fitness every day, working hard every night, they insisted something that we want to do, but we always can’t, are they perfect? No, they are ordinary people just like us. Do they live hard because they working harder? No, they can be very happy too. Do they have perseverance? Not necessarily, they may similar to us. So what is the difference between us? I think it is because we have different conditions. They maintain a better living condition, and we maintain a worse living condition, nothing more. For example: you are at rest, but he is moving at a constant speed, no more laborious, and no more painful; when he goes farther and farther, you remain still. Because of the different states, when you just start to run he is already far away. Running for a year is no more difficult than insisting on running for two months. As long as the first two months of perseverance, the remaining ten months are only used to it. Every day he learns 500 new words, and you start from zero, and you try to learn 50 new word for one day, but you can not insist for a week, is that a failure? No, Because you are start in more difficulties, you start from learn zero words everyday to being fifty words everyday. You are trying to change the status while he is just maintaining the status, you are doing more difficult things, if it is unsuccessful that is reasonable, it is normal, so do not deny yourself. To maintain is actually not difficult. The difficult thing is to start. When you been asked to do something you procrastinate, you do not want to start. Is that mean you weak? Or you have character defects? Neither of those. It just shows you are rational and realize that "getting started" is the most difficult thing to do, so you always want to avoid it. This is a normal reaction. Those who act now are wonderful talented, but we are not, we are just normal. However everyone want to be wonderful. So what should we do? Pain is a border, once you passed you will not afraid for getting painful. Keeping learn some new words for a year, or run a year, the real pain is at first few days. But if you start you will gain more and more, in the long run, in your study, and this is a steady trading. We are sane people, we can see the pain, we can see the painful border, and the endless stream of proceeds. How to reduce the difficulties of "start" ? First, we should learn how to "get started.” A typical "start" is like this: look to the goal, collect information, make plans, officially began. This idea is good, but lack of something, that is trial. Trial should be in the plan, if there is no section of trial in the plan,w whole plan will be worthless. In the most ignorant of the time to develop the most complete plan, of course, it will not succeed. For example, many people are not running yet, but they think about five kilometers per day in the future; somebody even not to the gym yet, but they already planned to show the abdominal muscle after three months. The failure of such a plan is not a defeat of a man, this is because trial is lacking. If you never start to run for a week, you haven’t feel muscle aches, do not jump to talk about a few kilometers a day. If you did not experience the word you learn and forget, forget and learn, do not think about every day to learn hundreds, one month to learn another language. You just do what you can within your ability. If you want to become a better person, the first thing you need to learn is “getting started”, whatever you been dreamed to do but you haven’t done yet should go to your plan and try it right now. https://www.wikihow.com/Be-a-Better-Person Check this link you will know the rest of steps. Jennifer C
11 Comments
Makaela
1/29/2018 10:37:52 am
This is such a good blog and very relatable this is so common for kids these days
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Sophia
1/29/2018 10:41:03 am
I am always trying to improve myself but honestly this blog made me realize I am good I am good enough I’m not perfect but no one is
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jacob
1/29/2018 10:41:39 am
I feel like there is no such thing as a perfect person because there is no one person that has the exact personality or exact looks at the same time, I'm guessing some stupid person who thought he was better than everyone else came up with the phrase perfect person.
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Latham Antonissen
1/29/2018 10:42:25 am
I find this blog to be very relatable. Demonstrated a lot of effort into this blog.
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Georgia
1/29/2018 10:44:56 am
I completely agree with you, getting started is the hardest part. Good job, I enjoyed reading your blog!
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Connor
1/29/2018 10:45:25 am
I totally agree, nobody’s perfect
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Christina
1/29/2018 10:46:48 am
I agree!! No one is perfect but that doesn't mean you can't try to be a better perspn
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Julia
1/29/2018 10:48:11 am
I also wrote about the blog about perfection. Like you said,I do believe that there’s no one who’s hudred-percent perfect and exceptional in this world. Great blog!
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Emma Ohalloran
1/29/2018 10:48:27 am
This blog is really great. I love what you wrote about, not trying to be a perfect person, but trying to be a better person. Not striving to be the very best at everything is something we all need to learn.
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Janeva
1/29/2018 10:50:31 am
It is easy to talk about doing things, but they will never actually be done or achieved if you don't do them! If you get started, through experience, you will grow to defy all odds and have achieved.
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Matthew Fayle
1/29/2018 10:50:57 am
The analogies that’s you have used are a great way to explain this topic.
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