In life each one of us makes millions of small and big decisions. We make small decisions like what to wear and we make big decisions like whether to go to college. Which decisions we make can and will change our lives, either in a good or a bad way. Even the smallest decisions, for example what to wear to a job interview, can the first impression on the interviewer is. Even more important are the big decisions. Who you are choosing to be friends with or where you’ll go to school and college, will have a influence on what you’ll work as, how and where you are going to live and it might even determine who your family is going to be. In the course of our life we will make a lot of bad or wrong decisions. But making wrong or bad decisions is not the worst thing that can happen. The worst thing that we could do is not learning from those bad decisions. Even though there are a few irreversible decision, you can still learn a great deal from those bad decisions. If you learn from those decisions you will make a lot more good and better decisions. because if you have done a mistake once or twice, you will probably not make them again. All that means that even if you make more mistakes than others in the early stages of your life you can still learn from those and turn your life around by making better decisions than others. The most important part about making big decisions is, that you should always take your time, because they can and will literally change your life. There is a study by moran cerf from the northwestern University, in which he found out that people only have a limited amount of decisions per day. Those decisions could even be small decisions, like what to wear or what to have for dinner. But if you have reached that certain amount of decisions made in one day and you want to make a big decision that could change your life, that decision you force yourself to make will probably be bad. And that’s why you should always take time to make important decisions. Henri R
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Kaelen
1/13/2020 10:57:38 am
As you write, we make a variety of decisions every day. The most terrible thing is that many times we don't predict or think about the consequences of decisions. Everyone makes mistakes. I take it very seriously that you are not causing robots and cannot completely eliminate mistakes. All we can do is to learn lessons. As a teenager, I ca n’t calculate how many mistakes I have made. The greater the impact of mistakes, the clearer it will become in my mind. This is self-reflection. We still need to constantly reflect on previous mistakes and reach the warning. effect. thank you for your sharing
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Maya Arnold
1/13/2020 11:06:24 am
Everyday we need to make decisions, whether it is to get out of bed to get to school on time or to study for a test the next day it's always decisions. Some decisions we make our impulse decisions while others we tale our time. Each decison really decides our future and I think that is something to always keep in mind.
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Beatrice
1/13/2020 11:08:34 am
Great blog. Every time i have to male an important decision i always freaking out, because i try to do it as soon as possible; the next time I will give me more time for make it.
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I agree, as humans, everything we do is a decision, and for far bigger life altering decisions we should most definitely take more time to observe whether or not this could be good for our lives. I also believe that mistakes are needed for improving, you can't simply make a mistake and not learn from it, every single choice you make does have an impact on who you are as a person.
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